by admin | Nov 26, 2025 | Intimate Connection
Before anything else, I need to name the truth: I left this relationship suddenly, not because it wasn’t good, but because the intensity made me feel emotionally claustrophobic, and I wasn’t ready to carry the weight of someone else’s feelings alongside my own. When I...
by admin | Nov 26, 2025 | Intimate Connection
So I met R. Yes, another one. At this point I’m thinking of forming a support group for all the R’s born around 50 years ago who keep wandering into my dating life. R and I have been talking for a few months now. We tried a few times to meet and it never quite...
by admin | Oct 31, 2025 | Intimate Connection
Some moments are so vivid that no dry erase marker could wipe the smiles on your faces. Meeting R was one of those moments. He is a linguist, a researcher, who does similar work to me though in a different sector and a master of many languages. His speech bubbled out...
by admin | Oct 12, 2025 | Intimate Connection
Before I published this blog, I sent it to Sam. Yes, I asked permission to use his photo.Yes, I checked about the content. His reply? “Just had a chance to read the blog and I love it… It sums it up so well, that our connection was fantastic and it’s something...
by admin | Oct 11, 2025 | Intimate Connection
Sometimes life drops these tiny little signs that make you totally smile. For me, it was Jimmy’s tattoo of peonies. Yep, the same flowers that have basically taken over my bedspread and are spilling all over my study. I recently Temu’d the heck out of my study...
by admin | Oct 7, 2025 | Intimate Connection, Uncategorized
Writing a Dating Profile That Speaks to the Right Kind of Person When I look at dating profiles I often notice how many people use them to protect themselves. They write long lists of what they do not want or announce that they have “done the work.” I understand that...
